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Thursday, 19 February 2015
Tuesday, 20 January 2015
Four things your kids need to see you do in your marriage

- I am an advocate of a two parent home
largely because I was not part of one. My mother and father divorced
when I was little and my mother did not remarry. I don't blame her for
choosing to stay single after my father. She dealt with a lot of
emotional abuse that would last her a lifetime. In some sense, I believe
she wanted to protect us from another potentially "bad" relationship.
I could write a book just on the effects of divorce on children alone, but this isn't the article. I am simply sharing some history about my own family because I feel that I missed out on some valuable lessons about positive relationships. Now, many years later, with a family of my own, I am aware of my own family dynamics. My husband and I work hard in our marriage for one another, but we also allow our children to see the good, the bad and the ugly.
Many of my friends have told me they have never seen their parents fight nor have they overheard decisions on family financial matters being made. At one time, I thought that was how I would handle my own family matters, but it just didn't work for us. My husband and I want our children to be aware of what it takes to actually make a marriage work day-to-day I want them to understand it's not always about the glass slipper, but the daily grind.
Here is a list of things I personally think kids need to see us doing, as couples, in our marriages. What would you add to the list?
Thursday, 15 January 2015
Why We Begged Buhari To Come Rescue Nigeria — Tinubu

The All Progressives Congress’s (APC) presidential campaign’s whistle
stop tour of all 36 states moved on Tuesday to Abeokuta, the Ogun State
capital.
The delegation was led by the presidential candidate Muhammadu Buhari along with his vice, Professor Yemi Osinbajo. Other members of the party were also in attendance including the party’s national leader, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, and the former Governor of Osun state, Bisi Akande.
Championing the cause for the presidential candidate the party’s national leader, Tinubu revealed Muhammadu Buhari’s initial reluctance to run in the elections. “We begged Muhammadu Buhari to contest again,” he said in Yoruba. “Nigeria is challenged and we present to you a great leader who has the ability to think and do and equals to performance. Buhari is the man that can deliver because he is honest, he has integrity.”
The delegation was led by the presidential candidate Muhammadu Buhari along with his vice, Professor Yemi Osinbajo. Other members of the party were also in attendance including the party’s national leader, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, and the former Governor of Osun state, Bisi Akande.
Championing the cause for the presidential candidate the party’s national leader, Tinubu revealed Muhammadu Buhari’s initial reluctance to run in the elections. “We begged Muhammadu Buhari to contest again,” he said in Yoruba. “Nigeria is challenged and we present to you a great leader who has the ability to think and do and equals to performance. Buhari is the man that can deliver because he is honest, he has integrity.”
Thursday, 27 November 2014
Wednesday, 19 November 2014
If you don't pay attention to these five areas, divorce could be on the horizon
David Simonsen, a seasoned expert, while writing for www.familyshare.com, reveals five common culprits that might be steering you toward divorce. His thoughts and revelations make informed reading. Enjoy it!

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"My husband told me that, if things don't change, he's thinking about a divorce."
"We have nothing in common anymore."
"She's not the same person I married.
"We have so much going on, we simply don't hang out with one another."
These are the common phrases I hear over and over when I work with couples in crisis. I expect to hear them. They are what I have prepared for. When I hear them coming from friends, however, it catches me off guard. It shouldn't, I know, but somehow I think that my friends won't succumb to the pressures that lead to divorce. Yet, my friends are just as likely to divorce as are the people who come to see me.
In my years of work, I have found several common denominators that everyone knows about, but it continually seems people don't pay attention to them. Not paying attention to these things inevitably leads to poor relationships and, many times, divorce. While there are many number of things that can lead to divorce, these five things are what I have found to be consistent among couples in conflict.
Tuesday, 18 November 2014
6 Most Likely APC Vice-Presidential Candidates

Few weeks before the All Progressive Congress, APC, holds its presidential primaries, below is a cursory look at five politicians that are most likely to emerge as the vice-presidential candidate of the opposition party:
1. Governor Babatunde Fashola:
Arguably, he has the brightest chance among the lot. His greatest undoing would be if a Muslim presidential candidate emerges (which is most likely anyway), but the APC might ignore the warnings from different quarters not to field a Muslim-Muslim ticket and go ahead to draft Fashola into the race because of his popularity across the nation despite the recent denial by one of Buhari's spokespersons.
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